Sunday, December 20, 2015

2015 Year in Review



Our year started with major projects preparing our house to sell. In April, Barbara underwent extensive spinal fusion surgery and Bill helped during her recovery. By summer, we resumed most activity and enjoyed special times with family and friends. For most of the fall, we joined the caregiver team helping Barbara's mom. She passed away December 11th of Alzheimer's or a related disease and we will have a memorial service for her December 27th in Vero Beach FL. She's sadly missed.
Barbara & Bill at Chesterfield Gorge, Mass.

Carrie, Bill, and Kate at Pemaquid Point, Maine
Barbara at Monhegan Island, Maine
Bill with Al & Miriam Tillman at McKee Botanical Garden, Vero Beach, FL, Oct 13

Kate's transitioning from living on her own to living with her sister next year. She's serving at a fine Italian restaurant, Il Casale. She enjoys martial arts, church, running barefoot in the woods, fine cuisine, and meeting new people. Kate and Bill backpacked in the White Mountains and we all had a glorious time together in Maine at some of our favorite places.
Kate at Pemaquid Point, Maine
Kate doing a handstand
Kate backpacking in the White Mountains
Kate at a friend's wedding

Carrie, our world traveler, used both her Spanish and French while continuing her Economics studies at Boston College. During the summer she studied Spanish in Peru and interned in Bolivia. Then she took classes this fall in Paris and traveled around Europe whenever she had free time. She experienced Inca ruins, French cuisine, an alpine village, magnificent architecture, acclaimed art museums, romantic castles, and so much more.
Carrie at Machu Picchu, Cusco, Peru
Carrie at the Eiffel Tower, Paris, France
Carrie in Barcelona, Spain
Carrie in Lyon, France


Well, we didn't move in 2015, but plan to in 2016.

Saturday, December 19, 2015

In Remembrance of Barbara's Mom, Miriam Tillman





Miriam Evelyn Tillman, died peacefully at her home on December 11, 2015. She was born in Orange, NJ on June 21, 1933 to William and Cecelia (Conlon) Hedden. She grew up in Millburn, NJ and the Vailsburg section of Newark with her brothers James and William. On February 20, 1960 Miriam married Alfred J. Tillman, and they remained devoted to each other for 55 wonderful years.  

Miriam graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree from Douglas College (now Rutgers) in 1955. She taught at Vernon L. Davey Junior High School in East Orange, NJ.
Following their wedding, she and Al moved to Mt. Tabor, NJ where she continued teaching until she paused to raise children. She became president of both the Women's and Garden Clubs of Mt. Tabor and co-founded the Mt. Tabor Nursery School. She and Al built a vacation home at Beebe Pond in Vermont. In 1974 the family moved to North Granby, CT where Miriam remained active teaching. Then in 1977 the family moved to Orchard Park, NY where she focused her career on early childhood education. The family moved to Temple Terrace, FL in 1984 where she became a pre-school director. Upon retiring, she and Al sold their home and bought an RV, in which they lived full-time for six and a half years, traveling extensively throughout the country until finally settling in Vero Beach, FL in 2003. 

Miriam loved skiing, hiking, boating, birding, and traveling and was particularly adept at developing travel itineraries, including a summer-long excursion with friends through Europe in 1956. Her artistic flair was revealed in gardening, flower arranging, cooking, sewing, quilting, and photography. She served in the various roles in the churches she attended and later participated in Community Bible Study. But most of all, Miriam was filled with love for her best friend, Al, and the rest of her family and friends.  

She's survived by her husband Alfred Tillman, her daughter Barbara Ruh and husband Bill, her son Edward, and her other son Ronald and wife Sue. In addition she leaves behind four grandchildren—Kate and Carrie Ruh, and Sean and Ashley Tillman—and also her brother Jim. A private memorial service will be held for her on December 27, 2015.